Trust

Complete trust in each other is one of the greatest feelings in any relationship. And nothing breaks it quite like infidelity. There’s never a justification for it. Although, despite even that, occasionally marriages are still saved. But it requires the hurt people to give unconditional amounts of love, enough to forgive and forget. Our loyalty to our companion shouldn’t just be physical though, it should also be spiritually and mentally too.
Be worthy of trust in everyday things. Avoid sketchy contact with anyone you aren’t married to. One good rule of thumb is to always have a third person present. It’s better safe than sorry. 
If your spouse confides something in you, honor and respect their wishes to keep it just between the two of you. Don’t post it on social media, or call all your friends and family. Lots of times, they don’t really need to know. So let’s say your spouse broke their toe, and they didn’t want anyone to know. Would you be able to resist telling anyone? Even if the story of how it happened, may have been funny to you? Well that’s what your spouse is hoping for. Maybe it was really embarrassing for them? They’d be trusting you to not tell everyone and their dog about it. If they ask you not to say anything, then don’t. If you feel like you need to get it out, maybe write it in a journal?
Trust is to a relationship what faith is gospel living. It’s the beginning and foundation of which more can be built. Where trust is, love can flourish.
Trust is never freely given, it is slowly earned. It can take a long time to gain. And once it’s broken, it’s even harder to gain back.

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