Setting the Scene
As a couple, we need to talk about things. Everything even. So before they turn into arguements or fights, here’s my suggestions: ‘Discussions’ should be pretty flexible. They can be spontaneous or only when problems come up. Or do it regularly to just keep up to date and on the same page. You can hold it daily, weekly, biweekly, monthly or even every few months. Whatever works best for you. You can have them when you’re out for a walk. Or driving the car around the block, or even dragging main. You can do it when kids, or anyone you live with is asleep. You could even try opening or closing it with a prayer. You could try to talk about future activities or goals for each person, or the whole family. But however, and whenever it’s held, you should be focused on listening and understanding each other, and giving loving support. Maybe start off with good things or express gratitude for each other or your blessings. Sensitivity and consideration should be felt by BOTH partners. R...